Refusing to live in Brad’s shadow...John dumps Jen!

19 Mar 2009
By Ahlanlive.com

Fed up with playing second best to Brad, heartbroken John calls it quits

JOHN MAYER was on the verge of proposing to on-off girlfriend JENNIFER ANISTON this week, say pals, but instead the heartbroken singer has been forced to call time on their relationship, after Jen made a series of frank confessions about her ex BRAD PITT in a shocking new interview.

Crushed and dejected
Speaking to a UK mag, Jen reportedly crushed John by gushing, “I will love Brad for the rest of my life – you can’t take away good memories.” Adding, “I don’t regret any of that time with Brad… They were seven very intense years together, and it was beautiful and complicated.”

And her frank admission came just as John was gearing up to pop the question to Jen, with a pal revealing he’d already chosen the ring.

“Money is no object for John. He’s creating a vintage-style classic ring for Jen,” a pal revealed before the break-up. “He’s looking at an 18-carat flawless diamond, so he won’t get much change from [Dhs10million]”. Adding, “He knows a ring like that would be hard to refuse.”

‘Can’t compete’
But as Jen opened up about her ex – who co-designed an elaborate Silvia Damiani engagement ring for her back in 1999 – the harsh reality that he could never compete dawned on a devastated John, who reluctantly made the difficult decision to end it.

“John believed that he and Jen were finally on the same page, and he was excited by the prospect of spending the rest of their lives together,” revealed a close pal. “To hear her publicly admit that she still loved Brad was a painfully harsh wake-up call for him.”

And another friend adds, “He broke up with her when she got back from Europe.”

Barbed dig

John – who has always believed himself to be the right man for Jen – suffered a severe ego-bashing, as a result of Jen’s recent revelation – “I want to be happy and loved, and not settling for something I think is second best and less than I deserve.”

A reeling John believed Jen was echoing the sentiments of her close friends, Courteney Cox and David Arquette – who have made no secret of the fact that they don’t think John is good enough for Jen.

And, though he refused to comment on the split, John – in what’s being seen as a joke about his bad rep among Jen’s friends – wrote on his Twitter site, “I just voted on People [magazine’s] ‘Is John Mayer a keeper?’ poll. I clicked ‘Love Him’ but ‘Lose Him’ is winning at 63 per cent.”

No happy ending

John’s also reportedly had difficulty accepting Jennifer’s recent admission that she wants to have Brad back in her life.

“I really do hope that we’ll be good friends again at some point,” Jen revealed about her ex-husband.

But sources close to the musician have insisted that the idea that Brad could be hanging around in the background as the pair start their married life together was just too much for John – and his ego! – to take.

The highs and lows of Jen and John

February 2008
The first meeting:
Jen and John hooked up after meeting at an Oscars after-party.

April 2008
The first pics:
The pair were officially outed as a couple when they were spied enjoying a cosy lunch in a restaurant in Miami – where Jen was shooting Marley Me.

May 2008

Heating up:
Steamy pics emerged of the new couple relaxing and kissing by the pool of the Mandarin Oriental Hotel in Miami.

May 2008

Making it official:
Jen invited John to the wrap party of Marley Me, where the couple kissed in public throughout the evening.

August 2008

The break-up:
After calling it quits, John held an impromptu press conference – much to Jen’s fury – outside his New York gym explaining to the media and paparazzi, “I ended a relationship to be alone, because I don’t want to waste somebody’s time if something’s not right.”

October 2008
Back on:
The couple reunited after enjoying a candlelit dinner in New York. “They looked like they were having a fantastic time,” said one observer.

February 2009

The backlash:
Jen’s friends become more vocal about their dislike for John, with Drew Barrymore urging Jen to dump him, reportedly telling her He’s Just Not That Into You co-star, “You can do better!”

February 2009

Make or break holiday:
The couple jetted off the exclusive island of Eleuthera in the Bahamas, for some quality time, with one pal commenting, “Jen and John have been arguing a lot recently.”

February 2009

The Oscars:
The couple wowed Hollywood with a display of loved-up coupledom, but suggestions that their PDAs were for Brangelina’s benefit seemed founded when they couple split just weeks later.