She's Hollywood's new darling, all blonde hair, long limbs and small screen to big screen star transition in two easy steps. But behind the megawatt smile and undeniable style, 29-year-old Katherine knows exactly what she wants and can't help herself from letting the whole world know just who wears the trousers in her new marriage.

Ahlan! ponders some of Kathy's revelations and discovers more than a hint of pushy power...

Want a baby, now!
Having babies
Once the Grey's Anatomy star got the ring on her finger, she started mouthing off to the press about how desperate she was for kids immediately! Unfortunately, Josh doesn't feel the same, but that won't stop Kath.

Miss Pushy said: "I'm super excited to start a family. I've always wanted a family, a large family." Adding that, although she wants kids now, Josh wants to wait for a couple of years, but, "We'll meet somewhere in the middle."

Wedding planner
The marriage proposal
Kath was so determined that her boyfriend, musician Josh Kelley, pop the question a year after they met in June 2006, that she "strongly suggested" the idea to the poor browbeaten guitarist.

Miss Pushy said: "I didn't propose to him, but I strongly suggested he propose... I said, ‘How do you feel about marriage? Where do you see this relationship going? Because I don't want to just date any more.'"

Huff and puff
Her smoking
Rarely spotted without a cigarette in her hand, Katherine has refused to quit her stinky habit, despite her hubby begging her to stop.

Mr Pushover said: "He's been pushing her to quit for a while," spilled a pal. "Josh thinks it's a nasty habit."

I'll be the judge
Decorating the home
Having moved into their marital home Kath has apparently refused to let Josh have any say in it, going so far as to chuck all his stuff out.

Mr Pushover said: "My wife got rid of all my bachelor stuff," Josh was overheard saying. "She and her mother have furnished the whole place without me."